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This is the ultimate disrespect. I have never felt so in control, relaxed, and loving life as I do now. I wish no one pain so Horney lonely looking black men on, heal, love yourself, love your children and love will seek you out when you least expect it.
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I am in the position now after refinancing that I can support myself and my two sons comfortably. I have to pay back family, lawyer and debt but it is manageable. Now I feel I can breathe easier.
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I never knew I was a fighter until I went through this. I am fighting for me! I gave up myself for my husband and my children. It is a real eye opener, when I didn't even know what I liked to do!
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Always remember to have your own interests and don't give things up to get a man to like you.