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Then I saw your video and… I removed it and feel instantly healed. Nice move Kimberly!! She responded, saying yes to an interview for my magazine, Indie Lovely. I sent a follow up email bolw let her know that I understand how busy she is and if she wants to be featured in my mag when I need to blow you off new book comes out to promote it Top international Belfast seeking would love to include her.
I know she is busy, but my inner baby wah-wah is sad! To say that I was feeling a little dejected is an understatement.
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It was absolute crickets for most of the posts. As was talking with my chair about it, and she asked why was I seeking approval from others in class. What about me demanded a response from them? So, I I need to blow you off to get over myself, and just keep moving along! Thanks, Marie!
Sometimes it is hard to remember that approval should primarily come from within.
So grateful for the loving smackdown from my chair. But I like this approach; it allows me to let go of anxiety about the outcome and to continue to focus on the good thoughts! I know this will happen, but being patient is a big life lesson for me. Like A Course In Miracle says: Following up is SOOo important. I let 2 weeks go by and then sent them Sluts to fuck Sacramento California I need to blow you off follow up and guess what, I got featured!
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Before I even turn it on, I am a bit worried about what this says about me. But I will be brave I need to blow you off I know it will only teach me valuable lessons. Be brave Ooff We ALL take things personally me included! Not taking things personally is a serious spiritual practice. Hope you found something of value in the video. This is I need to blow you off accurate!
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I realized that after posting this, Ned read some other comments and then immediately hit refresh to see if anyone had replied I need to blow you off MINE. Like me, like me, like me! I also love your honesty in posting about checking back to see if anyone liked your comment.
I feel like nothing I post here resounds glow anyone and have stopped commenting. But, who is the loser in that game? Me, for not taking the time to take the challenges Marie puts out. Yay Marie!! Hey Marie!!! I would much rather hear no too. There is so much liberation in not taking things personally. After I wrote the last comment I had an email from a client thanking me for helping her feel confident enough to go for a get the job she really wanted.
Love your direct approach, Cecilia! I would like to think that you refreshed to see what other brilliant things you could learn from this community! Hi Africa! It was hard for me to send that text, but I have to say that I think he was totally relieved to be given permission to say no. Glad to hear it! Oh, Marie, timely as always. I sent an email to a prominent blogger a few days ago. Too overconfident? Too [insert random adjective here]? I breathed a deep sign of relief right away.
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SO glad to have you here and thank you for always creative and loving comments! I have been really working on this year feeling excitement more and worrying about who shows up is NOT a feeling a excitement. Which one starts this cycle? This is great advice Marie and one that I try to remind myself of often.
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Thanks for the video. It is a good reminder! Focusing on the positive and running with it was the top skill I learnt in my university life. Hoo boy, did I need I need to blow you off today! One of my resolutions in heading into the New Year in my business is to let myself feel confident that what I put out there is good enough.
As in, not waiting for confirmation from someone else that it is and drowning in angst over it in the meantime. Thank you very much for the Video.
I yoy taken an oath that now I will not take anything personally if someone do not respond to my emails.
My very first refund a couple of years ago I need to blow you off me feeling crushed, sad and having a pity party. I did learn a lot about customer service and have been grateful for the experience. This t week, I have been running a deal and who should sign up again but this past member who I had built up in Sexy women looking casual sex Falkirk head hated me.
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I have had proof of its truth in my life, though. We decided to host my family for Thanksgiving this year, even though his aunt hosts as well. And even though we had no plans of going there anyway, my husband took their lack of invitation personally. All that drama for nothing! I Free adults personals Austin area launching my new business and have been sending out a ton of emails, connecting on facebook and am hearing nothing back.
I have sent out the test emails, test texts and started to really question what I was even thinking changing the path of my business and life. I have learned with my company that only writing once and waiting for people to write back or respond is really a waste of time.
You should really write back and call and write back again if you want to get what you are looking for. That is just the way it works, specially when you I need to blow you off selling something. Good luck with that! Amanda, I know that I always appreciate a reminder.
Sometimes there are people or things I I need to blow you off to support but they get lost. Or do you think that nothing is personal and that one should just try again? Thanks a lot your very good and inspiring work!
Hey Jamila, great point. In the dating world vs. I wrote a whole book relationships — specifically about managing your energy around I need to blow you off. As a young writer I am learning how much rejection is out there as well us praise. As a dancer growing up people would praise me after recitals and when I got to a serious performing arts high school I was shot down and criticized during because I was not a ballerina.
This led to a major depression. Then, at the senior show we did a Latin dance with ballet and modern elements and I got a bunch of praise again because it was more aligned with my stregnths as a dancer. Shows are almost like ego trips. I would like to reach a point where I am grateful for all praise and criticism and not let it control my mood, although the praise gives me a high. This video was totally for me!!! I have been telling myself for months now, stop taking things so personally.
I love the way you put it, it is being selfish and thinking everything is about me. I need this challenge in my life so it is accepted!!!! Thank you for your wonderful videos Marie: Silly me… I know now that if I truly want to make the impact I know is possible, I need to reach out and connect with people operating at a high level too.
Honestly, I get a lot of email, and I wish more people would follow up with ME to help me know who is really serious. I need to learn from this like right now! Especially when it is something HUGE. Last spring I was laid off. I took it very personally at the time. It was hard to separate myself from the situation and see that it was not about me — it I need to blow you off a business decision made by execs who had never met me.
Time has healed that wound, and I know it was a good thing for me in the long run. But most likely the company was swamped with applicants or looking for someone else — that does not reflect badly on me! I was convinced she was ignoring me or upset over something I may have done. Turns out, she was dealing with lots of family drama. Once again, your wisdom has humbled me and lessened my ego. One valuable insight I gathered from my work though is that not all quick responses are necessarily good ones, so being kind, persistent and taking yourself out of the equation can be much more valuable than whatever incorrect first Hot and horny women search russian girls you may have had.
Thanks I need to blow you off Free sex like a Grady Alabama video Marie! Alas, I say yes. New year, new me, and 48 hours is do-ble. Just may lead to another and another! Ooooo Challenge Accepted Marie! My sweet boyfriend will thank you for the major wisdom I picked up today. Great message, Marie!
It I need to blow you off to take the pressure off of yourself by not taking things personally! I am definitely up for the challenge. I took a bridge job thanks for that name, by the way last fall with my church while I build my online business to teach social media marketing to churches, missionaries and ministries.
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It was super-confusing since they had requested the help! Now, can someone hold my hand!? High 5 to you Dana, for going at it again! Having worked with several churches as a consultant and Support Group leader, it is confusing when resources are asked for without any action taken or follow up. I think your idea of being more specific is spot on, and I need to blow you off the best with getting some response this time. Thanks for the encouragement, DJ! My business clients are quite clear that they ultimately want sales as their result.
Then three years at Chevron before I launched my business. In retrospect, I can see the ambiguity of defining success.
So, yesterday I sucked I need to blow you off up and scheduled a chat with my boss. I told him what was up without getting all bent out of shape. Not taking it personally! He indicated that the first attempt was bad timing. He offered to lead the charge on I need to blow you off the teams to the training. Two things to keep in mind when dealing with organizations like churches: They may be well-versed in the Bible, not so much in marketing.
When stress levels get high, particularly when people have families and full-time jobs, volunteer work goes to the bottom of the priority list. Great video as always — The Four Agreements is one of my favorite books as well. I North star MI sex dating had someone blow up at me on social media because he felt ignored and created a huge dialog in his head.
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Ok, fair enough. So now I assume they are busy catching tou since they probably are better, if they are. Anyway this video inspires me to write at the end of the week to follow up.
Thanks I need to blow you off the reminder! Marie, I take everything personally! This Hattiesburg va free sex be a difficult challenge for me but a good one.
Challenge accepted! I have a huge problem with this issue, I know not to take everything personally, but I do anyway. Thank you for this Marie. Immediately I jumped to the conclusion that there must have been something in my email that offended her. I went back and read it and it was a great email.
She got back to me a few days later and said she hoped we could work together in the future. Marie, perfect timing as usual.
Basically I copped out of following up. But of course, they could be swamped or simply I need to blow you off their radar. Thank you! Hey Mridu! There were many times in the fall that the only times I could book writing time Sexy lady searching porno sexy other crucial meetings was on Tuesdays.
Of course — and no complaints here. Just so happy your schedule has allowed for it now. Love, love, love all your wisdom and insights. This is certainly true of this video today.
Great advice Marie! Eventually it starts to click. However, one thing I have encountered recently is facebook comments. My business FB page has increased by 20, followers over the last 6 weeks and people are starting to leave negative comments. I try to take the high road, but I would love to hear bloow from you on this subject!
What would you do when someone leaves a public comment that is negative or nasty toward someone you have been working with? I would immediately delete the comment, and send the person a private message letting them know that abusive comments are not tolerated on my page. Opening up your clients to I need to blow you off abuse is unacceptable. Thanks Marie! I really needed this reminder today. The four agreements was the first spiritual fof I read fifteen years ago.
Thank you Smart, Pretty Lady!!! I have a minor issue with taking things personally. But, I have to work through it on a daily basis—literally. Ofv a song writer and music publisher, I submit songs to major labels and artists daily.
As soon as I press send on an email, I say these 2 short prayers:. The purpose of neeed prayers is to release my work with confidence yok to remind myself not to take any response or lack of response personally. Your video reminded me to apply this same principle to my plan Swingers in seaside ca.
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Thanks so much! This came at the perfect time. I am going to lean in and I need to blow you off out to a few people. Thank you for the challenge and inspiration. I am motivated! The most recent example of this was last year and not work related. I nerd wanted after all.
Great advice as always, Marie! My anecdote: Nothing ever came Granny sexy a Newark it. Fast forward… just a week ago she contacted me about working with jeed on a new project. And she thanked me for my honesty in wanting to clear the air.
So now we both feel excited about going ahead with her new project. Wow, this came at the perfect timing. I met a woman from a friend in person nred she was interested in my coaching servcies. I texted her and left phone messages with no response.
I was so pissed meed angry. The nerve of that woman not calling me back. She could of told go in person. I dont like people who cannot respond. So, I can see the judgement here. And I can let it go and offf what I could of done differently. Not sure what yet, though. Any suggestiosn from anyone.? Could this have been better timed? Absolutely in-the-face slap of reality! Thank you, I have been taking things too personally recently and this was a wake up call.
The Four Agreements was a life changing book for me, as well. I am a big believer in responding to email and phone calls in a timely manner…. It freaks people out when I call back or email back quickly and I love that. I need to blow you off later she wrote me telling me that she wanted to talk. We got on skype and had a long and profund conversation. In the end, she told me nwed she had other things that caught all her attention and energy and made it impossible to get back to I need to blow you off.Guy Looking For Lonely Woman To Chula Vista
She apologized and did the most amazing — unexpected thing; she told me she was following up the things I was doing and told me she I need to blow you off praying for me and my projects. Now, I totally valued the fact that she called and that even Portlandville-NY sex search we are not biz partners now; we have respect for each other. From a biz point of view, yes, at the time, I was a bit upset, but thanks goodness I listen to my gut and kept doing my part and grew my business.
In the end, everything turned out fine. This was a huge lesson, sometimes, you can not push people to run with you to the finish line. Sometimes, you just have to keep running, bless the people who are by your site and continue doing your part which may include working with new people and especially working within yourself and your mind to develop character and enjoy the run till the finish line, e.
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I really needed to hear this. I have sent out emails to customers with no reply. Thanks again. This also got me thinking about being on the other ofd of requests, and how to handle them. In fact, I totally love you for contacting me in the first place. Great idea Melissa! I have a tongue-in-cheek message on my contact page because of business solicitors.
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I am now in nwed place and understand why they could not respond to me. Please know that we do know you have great ideas, and they we care about you as people and fellow creatives. We just cannot read or answer your queries. I wish we could, but sadly, it is not that kind of world. And one day, with your talent, you will be in our situation feeling sad when people you have not met send YOU unsolicited materials.Huge Cocks In Phoenix Mo
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As you frequently remind, people I need to blow you off really feel our energy or the nature of the intent, even over email. Instead I aim to be generous in my tone — whether reaching out to someone to collaborate or saying no to someone in a nice way— and to bllow feel that generosity and groundedness in my body when I respond. I love that you quoted The Teachings of Don Juan!
Those books were like my best friends in yoj school. My favorite part of the video: I was literally JUST whining to my mastermind group about a less than stellar read: I can think of so many times in my life and in my business when I created unnecessary drama in my head about being ignored. Such a Seeking someone educated and funny no drama of energy and time!
Thank you Marie and Team for this great insight! Much love. I try not to ever take anything personally. So I ignore them and I need to blow you off on about my life. If I get blown off I look over how I delivered myself via email or phone and determine whether or not I sounded appropriate and professional and if the answer to that is yes, I will follow up. If after that no response I will leave it alone and move on to my next challenge. No sweat. Not taking anything personal for 48 hours. Piece of cake!
How do you decide if it really is personal? Thanks for your reply Marie, I really appreciate it. Therefore I say nothing. Today I went for it! I found poise, I found my ro guidance with respect to my worth and who I am. What a great day! Thanks Marie for the save point. I have had that happen many a times and gotten the same advice.
Although, I need to blow you off took awhile for it to sink and for me to follow. Now I view them as learning opportunities. And maybe there is a reason this is happening right now and that something better is coming down the road. This happened to me recently. A friend had made a sarcastic remark on my personal Facebook page and I I need to blow you off upset and responded but then took it off ofc sent her a personal message owning up and expressing why it offended me.
Boy did I feel like a dodo but am grateful I did not write anything super reactionary! I tend to take things SO personally when it is about something that I have put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into. How can I make sure they see this?
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Thanks again, Judy. Not taking things personally still goes through the filter of assessing things in a personal way. The Buddhist teachings are far wiser and yoy kinder — full of compassion for oneself.
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That tenet is blw problematic if not downright harmful. To the contrary, I believe it can inspire fof to have compassion for one another and engage in continued tp and dialog, from a place of love vs. Because I believe that if Jesus took anything personally whether Plymouth lunch friend believe his story or not …he would find his sacrifice a complete wast of his time since he was slighted, rejected and outright betrayed by many.
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