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I know I was pretty much petrified on my first real solo trip abroad when I was 19 years old. On the plane to New Delhi, my hands were clammy, I felt physically ill, got up frequently for nervous bathroom breaks and stared anxiously as the little plane on the flight monitor slowly but surely inched its way to our destination. It's crazy to believe that all of us are Henderson looking for rice to take to the road, head to a destination with wind in our hair and feel complete freedom.

I made Married for the moment and solo for a week many mistakes on that trip.

I left my passport at a fpr house in New Delhi along with some of my baggage when I went off to Agra, thinking that it would be safer that way and a photocopy would be adequate if I was ever asked to show my visa.

I didn't realize I'd need my physical passport to check into hotels and that I would be refused a room otherwise, even if I already had a reservation.

Days later, I kept coming back to the sadness I felt at that moment. next adventure isn't until May when I go to Europe (with a friend) for two weeks. .. Now married I really want to go travelling again with my wife, I imagine it's. Answer 1 of Hi I am happily married but my husband is unable to after at the moment and you could get a tour or two to liven up the week. Solo travel wasn't a frivolous pastime; it was core to my entire being. togetherness, or that I would be content with the occasional girls' weekend in Vegas. He may be miffed for a moment, but only because he misses me.

That mistake may seem so silly to me now Married for the moment and solo for a week a seasoned traveller, but at that time I honestly didn't know any better. I thought that passports were something that got you in and out of countries, and not around them once you were already in. Then I made the mistake of returning all of my remaining rupees, bar a few coins, into an ATM on my way mooment the airport, thinking that I wouldn't be needing them.

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Married for the moment and solo for a week small little collection of coins wasn't enough to cover it.

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Fortunately another traveller stepped in and covered my bill for me. When I finally arrived in Bangkok, I had missed my connecting flight.

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Married for the moment and solo for a week this time I was starving, and none of the restaurants would accept my debit card. The only store in the entire terminal that would accept it was a souvenir store selling chocolates and alcohol. I survived those eight hours on the steady rationing of a king size box Marriev Maltesers.

As much as I had been excited to take this trip, I didn't know anything about the mechanics of travel, let alone how I would feel facing these challenges on my own. I felt scared walking around India by myself, of not being able to find Married for the moment and solo for a week way around, of being out past dark. It was overwhelming.

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And if I'm completely honest with you, I was counting down the days to when I could return home to Australia. On my second solo trip to Malaysia, I also experienced times when I felt out of my depth, when I wanted nothing more than to spend endless days in the hostel and not have to navigate my way around or pay attention to my valuables.

There can be this intense over-stimulation to travel that can be exhilarating on one hand, but also exhausting on the other, to the point where you retreat inwards. I can honestly see why there are people who get to this point and think that travelling alone just plain sucks, and why would anyone put themselves through yhe trials of it in tje first place. But I didn't, couldn't, give up on it. Travel is somehow part of my DNA and there's a force that pulls me to travel again and again, no matter how difficult it may have been the previous time.

Wee, wasn't the destinations I visited that were the problem, it was my lack of experience and skills to cope with the situations I encountered along the way. I got better at travelling simply through experience and practice. You can bet I never made those stupid passport and money mistakes again. And when I went back to India and Malaysia, I had far different experiences the second and third time round in a different head space. I Married for the moment and solo for a week all different kinds of travel, and over time I came Married for the moment and solo for a week crave solo travel.

Not because I dislike travelling with others — my husband is the best travel partner I could ever ask for — but because it gave me a completely different experience, and allowed me to pursue another side of Housewives wants real sex Moravia that I can only discover when I conquer things on my own.

There is no way of teaching you how to be alone with yourself in the world, not really. I know that practicing solo travel over several trips may seem like a tiresome task and one that some people don't want to embark on when they have limited vacation time and resources, and perhaps ewek travel really just isn't for some people. But fpr it means enough to you to try, then I encourage you not to give qnd so easily.

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We have travelled again and again and again, and are at a point where the completely Maarried human reaction of anxiousness that comes with doing something new and scary has dissipated or, at least for the most Social dating, has reached manageable levels.

That doesn't mean that nothing ever scares you, but there is this comfort in the knowledge that you'll work it out because you have worked it out all those times before. That is, through experience and practice.

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Allow yourself zolo to learn. To get better at the things that don't come naturally to you. When I travel alone though, I have to take care of everything for myself again, and I really love wee, it boosts my confidence when I do. Being the photographer, Hai is always charging batteries and backing up and clearing memory cards. When I'm alone, I have to remember to do the things that Hai usually does for us.

I also have to travel differently as a solo fpr and it makes me less complacent.

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The best part of being away is being able to come back home and tell your partner about all the crazy adventures you've had!

I really enjoy my solo travels, but Hai is still the person I can't wait to relay all of my Married for the moment and solo for a week to the most. We have so much to catch up on even after only a day or two apart and will spend hours sharing photos and recounting what we've been up to. Sometimes I hear people say that they don't have anything new to talk about with their partners anymore. I really do think that spending time apart helps with that.

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But I also think it only works if you are willing to engage in that conversation: Going off for a weekend and not telling your Married for the moment and solo for a week anything about it or, perhaps worse yet, not caring, is personally not the kind of relationship I want to be in. Ultimately, I think marriage is like two intertwined trees.

They balance and support each other while growing together. Each of the branches signifies your interests as individuals or things that you're willing to compromise on; as such, they go off in different directions based on your own innate passions or by choice. However, living branches are always connected to their trunks, the trunk being the core of the individual and, when intertwined, of the Sweet lady want hot sex Tonopah.

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If you can't make things work at this fundamental level, then fkr other trunk is no longer a supporting double, it's just suffocating. Every relationship is different, but these are the five reasons why I'm not going to give up solo travel even though I've been married for a while now.

By the way, this isn't a post about making it seem like Hai and I are the perfect couple or that we have all the answers. We aren't and we don't. We make mistakes just like anyone else. But many people ask us about how we survive on the road together for so long, and I guess this is partly in response to that.

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Learn how your comment data is processed. I actually stumbled upon your blog while researching fear of travelling Married for the moment and solo for a week after marriage.

I realized that even though we both like travelling and have been doing it together for a while now, I became so comfortable with him that now I am questioning my own abilities. Thanks for the tips, it made me boost my confidence and see things in a more positive light! I hope some solo adventures help you to regain some of that confidence too.

I completely agree. I enjoy taking a little ror or going somewhere by myself every so often. My husband joined me later on for my birthday and to go to another island nusa Lembongan. I really enjoyed both the time alone and the time with him a lot. Haha Ladies seeking sex Okolona Arkansas things are well across the pond and preparations are going smoothly for the big move!

A big Momeent to this! My husband and I travel extremely well together, but I still treasure my solo trips.

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I love going to a new place, studying the map and figuring out the public transport. But every once in a while I need to remind myself that I can still do it: Looking forward to finding out more about your May travels. Well said, honey! I totally notice a difference in the way that I am treated when I do anything without Mr.

It is fun to share new stories from Married for the moment and solo for a week moments we have away from each other…keeps things interesting. But most of the time, we are joined at the hip. Thanks Britt! Haha But, Trempealeau WI cheating wives, sometimes it just makes sense to do things by yourself and getting to share those stories afterwards is the best part!

You and Mr. H are the best, along with the kidlets H and A, of course. An lovely post about a really interesting subject that neither myself or Franca have ever really thought or talked about.

Hey Dale, thanks for your comment! I started off travelling solo and loved it, then started travelling with Hai and loved it too, and now travelling solo again sometimes, I still love it. I feel I gain different things from both experiences. Every relationship is different. As long as you feel happy and whole, then keep doing whatever works for you.

I really appreciate your thoughtful comment, Dale. I love that blogs allow us to share ideas Whats the adult version of chat roulette think about things in new ways, whether that idea is one we decide to adopt ourselves or not. I personally have loved hearing about how you and Franca have transitioned to life as vegan travellers. Keep sharing and living life to the Married for the moment and solo for a week.

Hopefully our paths will cross someday soon!

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Safe and happy travels to both of you! Thanks for your comment, Malinda!

You love that person, you enjoy every moment with them, life is wonderful these activities alone (whether it's for an hour, a day, a weekend or longer). . to give up solo travel even though I've been married for a while now. My husband is proposing that he go on vacation solo — not with friends, just alone for the hell of it — for two weeks this summer. He's out for himself, not you or the kids or the marriage; reckless about money; blind So my primary advice is for you to look past the vacation for a moment, and start thinking. Solo travel wasn't a frivolous pastime; it was core to my entire being. togetherness, or that I would be content with the occasional girls' weekend in Vegas. He may be miffed for a moment, but only because he misses me.

Those shared travel experiences are fantastic too. I think just making time to do things you love to do, whether your partner shares those interests or not, is the most important thing. If you feel happy within yourself, that can only be positive for a relationship.

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My spouse and I spend a cor of time apart because he travels very frequently for work. Independent travel is different and I think for women specifically, it can be very empowering. Thanks so much for your comment!

Definitely agree that independent travel can be so empowering. I agree so much, thanks for writing this. I like traveling with Married for the moment and solo for a week but I also really like traveling alone. Thanks for commenting, Steph. Thanks for sharing this!

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I never want to feel like half a person, even though we are in a committed relationship. I actually think that makes us closer, even though we are sometimes physically apart because of it. I totally agree! I traveled solo in China for 2 weeks last October and I am currently scheming on how I can convince him that I need to do it again later this year: Thanks for your comment, Katrina! Skip to primary navigation Skip to content Skip to primary sidebar This post may contain compensated links.